tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-82230117844851486742023-06-21T12:50:21.971+08:00熟女探戈垃圾話無關舞技,只有人生熟女探戈垃圾話http://www.blogger.com/profile/03755534047289748693noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8223011784485148674.post-72823988103106747042017-01-03T21:08:00.003+08:002017-01-03T23:19:06.181+08:00你所不知道的探戈模式20160928<br />
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好啦,看完了前篇''如何提高你的探戈志願序'',好不容易整好你的油頭,穿好襯衫,噴好香水,噹噹,鏡子裡的你很帥,今晚一定有很多舞可以跳,but.....為甚麼邀到妹以後,跳完有點空虛的感覺呢?</div>
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觀察舞池中的人,似乎有些人的互動,與你方才的感覺大為不同,怎麼回事?</div>
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倘若你只邀跟你看對眼的靈魂伴侶,你可能會整晚沒人跳。(因為數學家已經算出能遇見靈魂伴侶機率是萬分之一) 因此眼神對上了,又點頭了,也未必能跳的心心相印。</div>
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以下詳列舞池中常見的跳舞模式:</div>
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1.趕屍模式: 對方只是跟屍體一樣被你拖著跑,根本一點都不想跟你跳,所以各種虛應了事,你們兩人一定都感覺得出來。</div>
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會發生悲慘的趕屍模式,常出現在''強迫對方跟你跳舞''的時刻,也就是你的邀舞方式沒有給對方拒絕的空間,因此他只好硬著頭皮跟你跳,因為不甘願,所以會跳出一種殭屍感,這種感覺可是很尷尬,體會過就知道,再也不想勉強別人跟你跳舞。邀舞時微笑點頭就好,如果對方不點頭就不勉強,否則用牛眼瞪著別人是會瞪出活屍來的,萬不可緊迫盯人,開口強拉更不可。</div>
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2.練習模式:常見於初學者,跳起來的感覺是還在摸索身體穩定度跟技巧,如果另一個比較有經驗,會有陪練的感覺。</div>
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3.進階模式:其實跟練習模式沒差多少,只是兩個學了一陣子的人,一起探索比較進階的舞步。(或著我們可以叫它健身模式,轉啊飛的好不樂乎。)</div>
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4.友情模式:就是兩個學了一陣子的熟人,一起開心地跳舞。</div>
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5.靈魂模式:他的眼神望進你的靈魂裡,共舞時妳成為了他的影子、他的呼吸、他靈魂的一部分,一整個跳的心心相印花開富貴金玉滿堂這樣。</div>
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女生到底用甚麼模式跟你跳?見鬼,我哪知道XDD 我通常都在跌倒模式(欸)。</div>
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共舞的模式只會有你們兩個知道,旁人未必曉得。</div>
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等等,為何4跟5之間沒有過渡期?當然有啊。只是這個灰色地帶實在太大了,筆者很難用文字來形容,這取決於個人變因。</div>
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看到這裡我想你也發現了,舞蹈是一門藝術,藝術必定有情感表現,否則它跟體操就沒有差別了。探戈中的體術技巧只能告訴你''形''要怎麼做,卻沒人告訴你''意''要怎麼做。</div>
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''意''在這裡指的就是跳舞時的感覺與感情,到底要放多少?答案當然是看人還有看你心情。</div>
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你可以完全用封閉模式跳,沒人規定殭屍不能舞技高,只是對方會覺得你像機器人。</div>
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你也可以用歡樂友情模式跳,格外適合milonga或是輕快音樂。</div>
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也可以用靈魂模式跳,適合漫長沉重的音樂,看你心情。</div>
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但完全''沒有意''的人,會像是探戈界的健身器材,就沒感情一直舉這樣。</div>
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有沒有人跳出一群好朋友來的?屋喔~</div>
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有沒有人跳出一個靈魂伴侶來的?屋喔~</div>
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有沒有人跳到最後沒人要跟他跳的?屋喔~</div>
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重點在於一支和諧的舞,是兩個互相同意的人跳出來的,絕對沒有誰勉強了誰。</div>
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*本文同時適用兩個性別。</div>
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備註:</div>
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tango face 係指跳舞時hold住一個文靜有氣質的表情,以增加美感及帥度,大多老師都會告訴你務必要維持tango face,邊跳邊大笑難免會很像蕭婆,筆者就經常不小心跳出個姑婆milonga來,現在學一陣子顏面神經才比較hold的住。男生尤其要注意tango face的問題,否則一不小心就會出現猥褻感,筆者有遇過男生在勾腿裝飾的時候''喔嘶~''了一聲,那表情驚的本宮心想方才勾的到底是小腿還是人體要害呢。</div>
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<這篇文章可能太誠實會敲碎一些玻璃心,還請審慎服用></div>
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探戈舞會是自由市場的真實體現。</div>
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在探戈舞會當壁花是一件很痛苦的事,人人都希望自己有跳不完的舞。</div>
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因此初學者最容易遇到的挫折跟撞牆期就是>>>去舞會沒人跟你跳!</div>
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為神馬會這樣呢?這真的是舞齡或舞技的問題嗎?</div>
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以下詳列出幾個可能會影響你探戈邀舞排序的因子:</div>
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1.身高</div>
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2.外表</div>
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3.服裝</div>
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4.身體氣味(包含口臭)</div>
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5.態度</div>
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6.言語</div>
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7.表情</div>
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8.舞技</div>
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9.舞齡</div>
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上列因子在每個人心目中的重要程度都不一樣,因此再加上權重,用*號代替。</div>
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若以我個人的權重排序為例:</div>
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1.身高 **</div>
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2.外表 **</div>
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3.服裝 **</div>
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4.身體氣味(包含口臭) ******</div>
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5.態度 *****</div>
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6.言語 ***</div>
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7.表情 ****</div>
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8.舞技 ***</div>
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9.舞齡 *</div>
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由於每個人的權重都不同,我只能一一說明:</div>
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1.身高 身高差距有可能會是跳舞比較辛苦的因子,因為太矮的女生男生不好帶,太高的女生也可能會因為某些角度而感到尷尬,但這部分可以用錯身舞姿克服,這樣你的頭就不會埋進女生的胸部。所以說男生跳舞不要低頭是有原因的,舞衣經常都前低後低的說。</div>
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2.外表 我能解釋甚麼,帥就是正義(欸)但如果你其他部分都OK,這個因子就不重要。</div>
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3.服裝 如果大家都穿著襯衫背心,你穿著牛仔褲T恤,難免會覺得你很不尊重。</div>
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4.身體氣味(包含口臭) 好聞的香水是很重要的,清新的口氣也很重要,再帥的男生,如果夠臭,同樣能把女生薰跑,所以沒人跟你跳,經常是因為這點,但是女生不會告訴你。</div>
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5.態度 對女生尊重與否的態度,女生當然感覺得出來。</div>
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6.言語 跳舞最好是不要講話,小聊兩句還好,但如果出言調戲,很容易被女生列黑名單。不說話還是比說錯話來的好。</div>
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7.表情 臭臉人絕對有邀舞危機,不分性別,你總不會跟滿臉殺氣的人跳舞,微笑享受音樂會比較容易親近。</div>
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8.舞技 這個因素不大,畢竟你走的拙還是有人會好心陪你走走,舞技太爛不是問題,舞技太好拼命炫技比較是個問題。(香香的金城武說’我只會走路怎麼辦’,好啊姊陪你走到天荒地老(欸)臭臭的納豆說我會黑天鵝十二次鞭轉,好呀你慢慢轉,我在旁邊啃個東山鴨頭後。)</div>
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9.舞齡 完全沒差 一個月 一年 這跟資歷完全無關 頂多是經驗問題</div>
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補充一下心態問題:</div>
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當你走進舞會的時候,如果要用競爭的心態,你會挫折到死。但如果是用愛跳舞、想跳舞的心態,你會有跳不完的舞。</div>
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你來這裡不是要打敗舞池中的其他人,而是因為你想要跳舞。這個心態的差異,會對你邀舞的志願序顯著影響。</div>
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至於跟異性跳探戈到底有沒有情慾流動?</div>
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那我問一下,你跟異性去夜市玩射飛鏢到底有沒有情慾流動?去郊遊爬山到底有沒有情慾流動?去路跑到底有沒有情慾流動?一起逛街百貨公司周年慶到底有沒有情慾流動?</div>
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我想如果跟*跟金城武玩數獨*應該會很有流動吧。</div>
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但是如果跟*納豆上摩鐵*可能會覺得啥都沒流動呀。</div>
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讓啥流動的從來都是人,而不是運動啦,不要把探戈汙名化了咧。</div>
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本篇文章適用兩個性別,祝大家去舞會都有跳不完的舞。</div>
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探戈垃圾話1</div>
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‘學姊,你會跌倒嗎。’</div>
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‘開玩笑,學姊超會跌倒的啊。’</div>
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(探戈有一種舞步叫跌倒。)</div>
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探戈垃圾話2</div>
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‘賽門,又遇到你啦。’</div>
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‘妳今天又穿甚麼cosplay dress?’</div>
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‘不,我只是沒打扮....’</div>
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探戈垃圾話3</div>
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賽門:‘我必須要拿掉我的老花眼鏡。’</div>
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我:’’喔我也要拿掉我的近視眼鏡。’’</div>
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賽門:’所以我們現在是兩個瞎子在跳舞耶。’</div>
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探戈垃圾話4</div>
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賽門:’所以妳近視到底有多深?’</div>
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我:’欸,我幾乎看不到你的臉耶。’</div>
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賽門:’難怪我們跳得那麼好。’</div>
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欸,其實我還滿驚訝探戈小筆記竟然有讀者的,還被讀者催稿...</div>
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其實會停刊是因為,覺得自己明明就跳滿爛的,然後一直用文字說嘴,恥力實在很高....</div>
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既然沒有技術(喂),只好拿自己最近的經驗來說嘴了。</div>
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大家都知道我有非常可怕的close embrace,只要跟我跳CLOSE,不是摔死的命運就是踩死的命運,所以後來我很少跟人跳CLOSE。好不容易OPEN跳好一點,就不太想挑戰充滿挫折感的事。</div>
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對於把胸口掛在別人身上還能好好走路的學姐們,實在感到很欣羨。</div>
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結果某天舞會遇見了其他教室的B老師,(不打廣告,以下皆用代號),他要找我跳CLOSE,下場當然很恐怖,不是跌倒就是踩腳。因為實在太可怕,所以他把我拉到旁邊說,這樣站不好很危險。自己會跌,對方也會跌。</div>
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可是我一直不懂為啥自己CLOSE站不好。B老師做了一個實驗,他要我站好OPEN的站姿,然後他embrace close的姿勢。然後他說,妳站好不要動。就慢慢的離開。</div>
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‘妳看,我離開了,可是妳沒有跌倒。就算男生離開了妳還是可以站好好的,這就是我要的close。’ 一句話頓時讓姐好像腦子被開光了啊(蝦毀)</div>
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這跟本教室’有人離開就會跌倒,所以一定要互相依靠。’的精神完全相反。</div>
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‘可是,A老師說,close要依靠彼此的重心,甚至是共用重心。’</div>
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‘close embrace本來就有很多流派,這些派別沒有對錯可言,重點是找到一個最適合妳自己的。’</div>
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‘互相依靠重心有它的好處,但是犧牲的就是腳的自由度,互相獨立也有他的好處,就看妳要怎麼取捨,妳不可能同時靠著對方,又讓腳很自由。如果妳是獨立站好的,就不會互相踩到了。照妳的狀態,硬是依靠對方,根本是讓自己處在隨時會跌倒的情況。’</div>
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‘close與open的差別,只是距離的遠近,但是重心要依靠多少,並不是說死的,一首歌裡面,可能隨著音樂的變化,有時遠,有時近,有時要依靠,有時要獨立。’</div>
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這說明了我對close embrace的誤解,把胸口靠在對方的胸口我並無法站好啊(可以做到的人真是太強啦)。</div>
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‘站好妳自己,不管是close還是open,安靜等待男生的訊號,才是妳的功課。硬是要做出妳腦中''正確的舞姿’’,結果反而害自己跌倒,那當然就不是正確的。’</div>
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哇靠探戈到底是有多隱喻戀愛啊<<<每次都要這麼驚奇的講這句。</div>
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(好啦,我更新了。妳們真的這麼喜歡看探戈的垃圾話嗎XDD)</div>
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本週小筆記(正經一點)</div>
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‘ Cruzada就是探戈中的逗號,它代表了停頓以及舞序之間的分隔,如果男生邀請妳做,妳不做,他往往會無法思考下一步,探戈的美,不是因為舞序的無限串流,是因為中間還有停頓跟留白。男生也不要都沒有逗號的一直放大招衝下去,反而失去了音樂的美感’</div>
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熟女探戈垃圾話http://www.blogger.com/profile/03755534047289748693noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8223011784485148674.post-73612338314502964372017-01-03T21:00:00.001+08:002017-01-03T23:20:21.088+08:00探戈戀愛學<br />
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因為探戈跟戀愛實在太像了,所以時不時一定要寫這種濫情的玩意XD</div>
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1.要有自己站好的能力,也請記得把自己的外表打理好。</div>
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2.依靠彼此的力量是相同的,否則你們會很容易跌倒。</div>
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3.女性能否解讀男性的訊息,取決於自身理解力,以及男性訊號的強弱。</div>
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4.女性讀懂了男性的訊息,也未必要乖乖照做,可以發揮創意變化裝飾。</div>
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5.男生不能強迫女生接受自己的訊息。你只能邀請她讀懂,讀懂以後要不要配合看她心情。</div>
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6.一個人跌倒是兩個人的責任,互相指責對事情沒有幫助。</div>
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7.檢討自己是升級捷徑,指責別人不會進步。</div>
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8.音樂才是真正的leader,兩個人一起聽音樂跳,畫面才和諧。</div>
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如果遵守以上的規則,就能享受兩個人有默契地一起走路的樂趣。</div>
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熟女探戈垃圾話http://www.blogger.com/profile/03755534047289748693noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8223011784485148674.post-35264052420597836742017-01-03T20:58:00.002+08:002017-01-03T23:17:32.448+08:00探戈進入第50堂的小筆記<span style="font-size: large;">20160618</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">接下來,就是我們的事了。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">蛤?沒了?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">對,真的沒了。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">50堂以後的功課,全部,全部都是自己的事。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">剩下的問題絕對不是檢討別人,而是檢討自己了。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">許多人會問我說,為什麼沒有舞伴也可以去跳探戈?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">因為最終的重點,或許已經不是你跟誰跳,誰跟你跳得好不好,</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">而是你自己能不能穩定的站好,穩定的轉好,穩定的踢好。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">後面的進步全都是單人練習。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">探戈其實是一個人的修行。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">一支美好的舞,除了遇見一個會跳的人,還有自己平常練習單人基本功的基礎得來的。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">我們學會了跟別人互動,專心的聽他人的訊息,但更重要的是學會跟自己相處。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">技術面的東西其實只剩下一句話</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">‘如何穩定的在自己的軸心上移動’</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">軸心包含了 頭 肩膀 腹部 髖部 膝蓋</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">我們因為平常走路姿勢不正確,長年習慣外八或駝背,生活的壞習慣導致舞跳不好,這是完全無法隱藏的事情,唯有自己把姿勢矯正了,軸心才不會歪。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">說穿了就是練好走路跟轉彎這麼簡單的事而已。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">探戈小筆記到此告一段落,往後如果還有新的體會再來分享。</span><br />
<br />熟女探戈垃圾話http://www.blogger.com/profile/03755534047289748693noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8223011784485148674.post-1757735210163913922017-01-03T20:54:00.001+08:002017-01-03T23:17:32.445+08:00探戈進入第30堂的小筆記20160509<br />
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其實有點記不清上了幾堂,這數字可能會開始有點誤差XD</div>
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動作部分:</div>
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1.旋轉軸心的穩定度,軸心經常不是垂直於地表的一根竹籤,旋轉的時候就常會重心不穩。練習旋轉的穩定度,是要保持頭部/頸部/腰部/骨盆是垂直的一直線,因為核心跟骨盆沒有習慣收緊,因此旋轉的時候時常站不穩。(實在很想拿腰夾出來穿....)</div>
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想像自己是插著貢丸的竹籤,而竹籤插在地面上,各種動作就像是貢丸不管怎麼轉,竹籤依舊垂直插在地面上。****穩定站好自己是所有動作的基礎*****基礎不好,任何旋轉的動作都無法轉到位。</div>
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2.ocho的旋轉角度取決於leader帶領,請不要自己決定旋轉角度,紮實穩定的ocho是所有動作的基礎。</div>
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探戈還滿像打怪的,打完一層還有上一層啊。</div>
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之前說close embrace讓我感到很挫折,這禮拜又完全沒有這種挫折感了,跟他人的close brace比之前順多了。主要是自己可以站好,認真聽對方訊息的緣故,終於脫離close踩腳區了啊(感動)。</div>
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被踩的同學們真是辛苦你們了T T 踩人與被踩就是一種業力啊(喂)</div>
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peter學長教的虎口架人法非常實用,推薦給女孩們,可以用來自由的決定你要跟對方跳open或是close的舞姿。只要找到彼此舒服的距離,跳open也可以十分開心。絕不勉強自己跟不信任的人close。</div>
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心態部分:</div>
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自己越來越依賴探戈了,我不知道這樣是不是一件好事。</div>
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是不是因為自己的生命真的太空了,所以才會用探戈來填補呢。</div>
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但是這樣好像沒有壞處,畢竟運動美體一次滿足。</div>
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虐自己的腳,虐自己的腰,總比虐自己的心來的好。</div>
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下次如果再有人問我為什麼要跳探戈,我應該會回答說因為林鄒罵活的很空虛(喂)</div>
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我想起有人對我說過’’是探戈拯救了我的生命。’’</div>
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我想此言乍聽誇張,實則當真不假。</div>
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態度部份:</div>
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由菜鳥我來講對於leading的心得,或許太過狂妄,但是諸多leader不同的風格,讓我發現,好的leading,首要在於好保護女生不要跌倒,次要才是彼此的技巧展現。</div>
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就像同學說過的’’一支舞的呈現,是兩人共同合作的結果’’,跳的好或不好,也不是一個人的責任。</div>
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有些leader會讓妳發現,原來他專注於自身的炫技,而沒有注意女方的感受。</div>
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而有些leader會讓妳感到很放心安全,他給妳空間發揮自身的美好。</div>
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良好的學習互相回饋,會讓雙方都有成長,而不只是單方面的批評leader或fowllower。</div>
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我的功課則是學著傾聽與配合,以及最重要的’’站好自己’’,</div>
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兩人都要保持謙虛及尊重的態度,平等交流就有學習的空間。</div>
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倘若有人能引發妳好的一面,那麼卓越的是他,而非妳自己。</div>
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(感謝大家忍受我壞的一面XD)</div>
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硬體部分:</div>
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跳了四個月,這週才開始脫離國標鞋,穿上正式的探戈舞鞋。</div>
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然而,國標鞋的設計是為了讓雙腳舒適,防滑毛底穩定粗跟,都是讓你能夠輕鬆穩定站立。</div>
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但是阿根廷探戈舞鞋卻非如此,最少也要八公分的高度,是強迫你把重心放在前腳掌,維持探戈前腳重心的舞姿。</div>
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感覺就是腳底痛斃了啊啊啊啊。不能落跟時更殘忍。</div>
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第一次穿去pratica大概跳個三首歌就動彈不得,回到家躺床腳都完全不會動了。</div>
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瞬間有種打完所有怪,但是又被踢回新手村從採礦開始的感覺。</div>
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peter學長的建議是新舊鞋都帶著,覺得受不了的時候就換回舊鞋,畢竟保護腳不受傷才是最重要的。</div>
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這建議非常實用,而且目前穿新鞋的時間有一次比一次長,每次換回國標鞋,我都覺得痛斃的雙腳像是踩回了軟綿綿的雲裡超級舒服的啊!我以前怎麼覺得六公分的國標鞋很辛苦咧,穿過探戈鞋就會覺得什麼鞋都是天堂啊.....那些腳踩荊棘卻能偏偏起舞的女人們真是太強惹啊....(期待本系列十篇後我已經適應而且買了第二雙美鞋)</div>
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唯一的好處就是照鏡子的時候沒看過自己的腳這麼修長過啊,就是又痛又美的玩意。</div>
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‘痛就讓它痛啊,遲早要痛的。’</div>
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這句話我這週一直聽到,連老師都這麼說。(為何有種老鴇的fu)</div>
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讓我想起前幾週有人跟我說</div>
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‘妳知道有個童話故事,就是有個小女孩穿著紅舞鞋跳個不停,跳到腳斷掉為止嘛?’</div>
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結果我剛好就是買了一雙美美的紅舞鞋啊XDDD</div>
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超痛但是我好喜歡自己穿著它的模樣。</div>
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回家泡腳抬腿按摩擦乳液,好好愛護自己的雙腳。</div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">0.正確站姿:腳踝併攏,站姿錯了,就無法正確的用肚子的力量站好,後面所有動作也會跟著錯。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">1.1用腳掌站好,肚子收緊,站好是用肚子的力量,隨時檢視自己是否靜止於正確站姿,</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">2.向後延伸,並不是刻意向後跨一大步的意思,這樣會改變你本來正確的站姿。正確向後延伸的意義,是從embrace感受到舞伴的力量,一路從上半身傳導到下半身,進而’’自然緩慢的往後踏’’</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">2.1用腳掌緩慢落跟,而非咚一聲忽然落跟,訣竅是保持上半身頭頂的平靜,癥結則是小腿的肌力不足。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">3.embrace並不是用手腕的力量去推開舞伴,而是用手掌的力量抱住對方倚靠對方,這樣兩人才會在同個力量傳導系統裡。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">4.認真聽男生的重心,ocho自己要回到正面雙腳重心。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">5.用肚子的力量站好,就不怕拇指外翻,拇指外翻的人,是因為錯誤站姿+核心無力。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">5.1專注或緊張時,不要有用手指用力抓人的小動作。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">6.最後這是我個人關於態度的體會:</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">如果勉強自己為跳舞而跳舞,只會換來輕慢而不尊重的態度。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">擁有邀請的勇氣,也擁有被拒絕的雅量,你才真的能擁有成熟而完整的自尊。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">永遠確定自己是真的想跟對方跳舞才答應,不要為了任何理由而勉強自己。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">不是真正的同意,是羞辱自己,也是羞辱對方。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">不論是練習,教學,還是舞會上的邀舞,都確定自己是真心答應才點頭。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">如果敢不用眼神,公開的邀舞,自然就敢公開的被拒絕,這點體悟自己要有。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">不管是熟人還是陌生人,永遠不要勉強自己跳舞。</span>熟女探戈垃圾話http://www.blogger.com/profile/03755534047289748693noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8223011784485148674.post-52868350117938146912017-01-03T20:33:00.002+08:002017-01-03T23:36:57.651+08:00刺蝟的擁抱<span style="font-size: large;">20160331</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">每個人都有他內心深處自卑的事情,可以拋棄自卑,</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">去相信“跟我在一起就是會很棒”,有這種自信的人,</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">真是很不容易。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">因為親密關係,往往會逼彼此面對最醜陋,最脆弱的部分。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">這樣還能充滿信心的人,一定曾經好好地被包容接納過,</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">才會勇敢的認為,自己的弱項是毋須自卑的事情。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">怕被貼標籤,乾脆自己先貼﹔怕被傷害,乾脆自己先傷害﹔</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">怕</span><span style="font-size: large;">被拋棄,乾脆自己先拋棄...... 是大多人選的假性堅強。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">紙老虎並不是真的老虎,往往水一潑就化了。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">但是往心裡灌水泥,麻木不仁好像也不是真強者。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">希望最後,錫鐵人得到了心、稻草人得到了腦、獅子得到了勇氣。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">我們可以不要再當刺蝟了嗎。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">’’ 他給了稻草人用糠和別針做成的大腦,給了鐵皮人一個填了鋸末用絲綢做成的心,和獅子一種勇氣的魔藥。因為他們對於魔法師力量的信任,這些無用的物品真的給予了他們各自想要的東西。 ’’by綠野仙蹤</span>熟女探戈垃圾話http://www.blogger.com/profile/03755534047289748693noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8223011784485148674.post-7112190980790072732017-01-03T20:32:00.002+08:002017-01-03T23:39:06.805+08:00剖心挖肺跳探戈-2<span style="font-size: large;">20160407 </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">(用身體印證精神的寓言故事還在持續進行中,不定期補完)
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<span style="font-size: large;">前幾天進入了第二堂的close embrace課程,卻引起了不小的恐慌。
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<span style="font-size: large;">因為忽然間走不好也站不好了,還不停的被踩到腳,好不容易把open embrace跳的比較像樣的我,瞬間被打入了比初學者還要慌的挫折感浴缸裡,被挫折感滿滿塞到窒息。
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<span style="font-size: large;">最近也確實有種越跳越怕的感覺。
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<span style="font-size: large;">很奇怪吧,明明掌握了多一點的基本功和技巧,心理狀態卻不如初學時自在了。
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<span style="font-size: large;">因為跳的越久,精神上的弱點就會隨著距離越靠近,越浮現出來。
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<span style="font-size: large;">’’其實妳是不信任對方的。’’
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<span style="font-size: large;">好心觀察的同學提醒了我。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">’’妳不相信對方,也不相信妳自己。’’</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">’’令人困擾的並不是妳跳不好,而是妳想要掌控,而干擾了leading’’</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">’’無論妳怎麼回應對方的訊號都可以,只要妳把能量放在專注自己的腳步,而不是放在討好或控制對方怎麼跳,舞伴就會覺得輕鬆一點。’’</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">我很慶幸有好心的同學這樣跟我說,雖然聽到的當下,還處於有聽沒有懂的痴呆狀態。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">一直悶了兩天,看了老師分享的深擁抱影片,才有一點頓悟。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">影片中的人不是恐慌的,他們各自站好自己,不急著依靠對方。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">他們是從容優雅的,因為對自己充滿信任。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">’’莫非我是一個控制狂嗎?’’我問同學。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">’’討好式的控制,其實也是一種控制。’’很高興他回答了。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">原來只要專注於自己做的好不好,而不是一直去擔心他人的感受。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">所有的恐懼就會不見了。
學著站好自己,走好自己。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">學著把外放的能量內收回來。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">學著等待訊號,而不是刻意解讀。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">學著不臆測,而是回應。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">不用恐懼回應錯,因為回應沒有對錯可言。(但是臆測、預設立場等等往往是錯的。)</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">不用刻意依靠對方,</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">也不用刻意獨立自己。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">平衡是種最難的藝術,</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">希望下次不要這麼恐慌,</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">專注於自己舞步的能量,而不是專注於外界的反應。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">(這是我發現自己的探戈功課,肯定與你的不同。)</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">備註:
以下影片的資訊轉貼自Sabrina Chiu </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">’’Carlos Gavito & Maria Plazaola安靜地擁抱與細膩優雅的走路與舞步(ochos, barridas, cruzadas)示範,探戈不貴在會很多Sequence與技巧,而是擁抱著對方的態度。’’</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">延伸閱讀:</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Carlos Gavito & Maria Plazaola介紹-</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">http://goo.gl/U8iaq2</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">經典演出Milonga a Gavito-</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">http://goo.gl/Zzgs5y</span>熟女探戈垃圾話http://www.blogger.com/profile/03755534047289748693noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8223011784485148674.post-53484975212412625142017-01-03T20:25:00.002+08:002017-01-03T23:21:00.870+08:00剖心挖肺跳探戈20160330<br />
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這篇跟探戈技巧毫無關聯,跟自己的心有關聯。 </div>
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探戈會逼人面對自己的心理狀態。</div>
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談完上一場戀愛,
覺得精神上被摧毀了太多。</div>
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對方曾經拿出一條又一條的現實,
一條一條的嘲笑。
很多都是我無法改變的。</div>
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如果是減肥或是變美倒還輕鬆,
甚至就連個性也可以磨圓,
但是歷史或是家庭狀態卻是不會變了。</div>
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對方的各種輕蔑曾經造成一條一條的傷口。
後來在各種時刻發作都會痛的要命。</div>
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原來戀愛好像上戰場。
平時你只要有白米跟醬油就能活了,
要上戰場的話,
忽然就要煩惱冰箱裡沒有雪花牛該怎麼辦咧?
然後對方打開冰箱哈哈哈地嘲笑你菜色很差怎麼辦?</div>
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你就會困惑說 為什麼你要開冰箱呢?
我有叫你不要開啊。
我並沒有把冰箱打造的很華麗很吸引你開呀
甚至也有告訴你,裡面可能只有白米跟雞蛋唷。
你真的要開嗎?
如果開了以後失望,真的要怪我嗎。</div>
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探戈是精神上的引膿作業,會讓你痛的要命,可是你又不得不清創。</div>
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好在朋友提醒我原來還擁有了很多。</div>
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療傷的過程除了承認自己會痛,逼自己面對傷口之外,多向外看看其他溫暖的家人朋友,就會感覺好很多。</div>
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如何從頭到腳成為一位良好的探戈男子(或女子):<br />
●頭髮不會臭/頭髮不遮蔽男生視線<br />
●腦子裝了七七四十九種舞序(?)/有超過四首歌的集中專注力<br />
●能在黑暗中看見山豬的眼睛<br />
●耳朵配合音樂/好聞的香水味/明星花露水請不要<br />
●跳舞時不要講笑話/記得嚼個口香糖<br />
●胸口能配合舞步旋轉身體/胸針請拿下來不要刮傷對方<br />
●雙手撐好框架/輕重力道剛好<br />
●體貼舞伴的耐心/等待與聆聽<br />
●超強核心肌群/金雞獨立超持久<br />
●穩定的骨盆重心/靈活的髖關節<br />
●明明只有165跳起舞來好像180/修長美腿/不要踢到旁邊的人<br />
歡迎同學補完XD熟女探戈垃圾話http://www.blogger.com/profile/03755534047289748693noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8223011784485148674.post-36945455905090832582016-12-31T21:58:00.002+08:002017-01-03T23:21:23.172+08:00阿根廷探戈進入第九堂的小筆記20160309<br />
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<span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;">(這是給自己看的上課提示整理)
0.看著對方的領子否則身體會歪掉,歪掉就聽不到也做不出正確的動作。</span></span><br />
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1.除了聽男生想帶甚麼動作,也要聽音樂,因為男生想帶的動作有時候是配合音樂的,忽略音樂的話容易臨場傻在原地反應不及。
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<span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;">2.肚子收緊,練習單腳站的持久度,當想像腳掌踩地板的力量延伸至胸口,踩好踩滿,跟隨的動作就會是正確的,要把腿的力量延伸到上半身。
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<span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;">3.轉髖的柔軟度要靠基本動作拉筋。沒事請拉好拉滿。
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<span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;">4.放空跟發呆不一樣,不要空到變成殭屍了。
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<span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;">5.舞姿架好架滿embrace不要鬆掉。
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<span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;">6.悲慘的giro常常反應不及,前側後側前請當作本能。舞會臨場竟然傻傻繞著保羅哥跑步,明顯腦子放太空。
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<span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;">7.不要自己下重心不要自己下重心,單腳站好站好站好。
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<span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;">8.聽不只是對方的重心變化,留意對方的手到底想要帶甚麼動作,不然常常聽不到。
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<span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;">9.兩步的裝飾跟不上就常練一步的練到爛熟就會慢慢跟上。目前(踢勾)跟得上,踢勾點跟不上。
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<span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;">10.想像腳掌有蹼可以抓著地板(KERO~)
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<span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: 18px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br />11.發現自己聽的能力太差,導致對方會很辛苦。</span></span></div>
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